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Building Community, Being Consistent, and Bricking our Phones with Kalin Sheick of Sweetwater Floral

Podcast, Social Goals

What does it take to build two brands, a loyal community, and a floral business — all while raising a family and staying sane? I sat down with Kalin Sheick, founder of Sweetwater Floral for an honest conversation about social media, business, and life.

Kalin has spent 12 years building Sweetwater Floral to over 46K Instagram followers and her personal brand, Kalin Sheick, to 27K+ through consistent, authentic storytelling. She’s a boundary queen, a former TV reporter, and one of the most genuine voices on the internet. And she’s here to share exactly how she did it.

Bricking our phones changed everything

If you haven’t heard of “bricking” your phone, it’s the act of using a physical device (or app) to lock yourself out of social media during set hours. Kalin got her brick in January and by Valentine’s Day was ready to throw her phone into the ocean (in the best way possible).

Kalin now describes herself as living her “analog year” picking up more hobbies than ever, being more present with her kids, and still showing up on social better than she was 18 months ago. The key? Deciding when she’s on and when she’s not — and reminding herself that people can wait.

“World-class hospitality doesn’t mean I need to DM you back at 10pm about your Mother’s Day pre-order,” she says. “Your $65 order can wait until tomorrow morning at 10am.”

If you’re not ready to buy a physical brick, check out the Rot Stop app (a new Canadian alternative!) or the Opal app. But Kalin is quick to note that for some brains, only a physical device will do. No shame in any of it.

Being a boundary queen: what you share and what you keep

Before building Sweetwater Floral, Kalin was a television reporter. She already had experience being a public figure — and watching her family navigate that. When she started building her business on social, she made a conscious decision early: some things get shared, some things don’t.

When her daughter was born and spent 78 days in the NICU, Kalin wrestled with her own rule of not sharing about her kids. “And then I was like — number one, I write the rules here. Number two, this is impacting me in such a way that it feels inauthentic not to share.”

No one is paying as close attention as you think. They don’t know you wore that shirt eight days ago. They don’t care that your hair is greasy. We are our biggest inner critics.

The lesson? You write the rules. Share what feels right for you in this season, and don’t compare your threshold to someone else’s.

The accidental habit that helped build her community

When Instagram Stories launched, Kalin was sitting in her kitchen making coffee. She clicked on a story from someone she followed, watched her look at the camera and say “okay hi, Snapchat — what are we doing here?” and thought: I’m going to try that.

“Hi, good morning, clinks.” And she just kept going.

For years, she drank her coffee on Instagram stories most mornings, talking about what she was working on that day.

I feel like so much of business ownership is just throwing things at a wall until something sticks — and being willing to put yourself out there. That’s what I did.

— Kalin Sheick

She’s now run the math: somewhere up to 65,000 pieces of content created across 12 years. Her take? “Don’t be like me.” But the lesson remains: it’s just more reps. Anything worthwhile takes practice, and consistency is the name of the game.

The exclusive: why she’s moving to Substack

This was a Kalin Sheick exclusive — she hadn’t talked about this publicly yet. This year, Kalin had a reckoning with her time, her role as a mother, a wife, and a creator. And she hit a wall: she was working for free.

“I am not being paid for this work. I need to work smarter. When I monetize it, it will feel valued — and that makes me want to keep going.”

Substack felt like going back to 2007 — like finding a cool blog. You subscribe to a publication. You can pledge $5 a month to support the writing. And the creator owns their audience.

She’s moving her Sunday Morning Thoughts over to Substack, along with more exclusive deep dives. And The Lucky Girl community is coming with her.

The Lucky Girl Book Club (and it’s free!)

Kalin also launched the Lucky Girl Book Club — a free monthly virtual book club focused entirely on reading for pleasure. Not personal development or business hacks. Books you actually want to read because reading is FUN!

This month’s pick? A Carly Fortune novel. (Canadian, naturally. Kalin is very clear: some of the best people on earth are Canadian.)

Find everything at https://kalinsheick.com/

Key takeaways from this episode

🌸 Brick your phone (or use an app) to reclaim your time and show up better when you are online.
🌸 You write the rules on what you share. Authenticity doesn’t mean sharing everything — it means sharing what feels true to you.
🌸 Consistency beats virality. Every time.
🌸 100 engaged followers beats 1 million bot accounts. Full stop.

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